Huberman Lab
NYU professor Scott Galloway joins Andrew Huberman to lay out a concrete blueprint for young men: build value, seek discomfort, and resist the isolating pull of big tech. He shares personal stories, hard numbers, and blunt advice for anyone guiding the next generation.
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Scott Galloway argues that the real crisis for young men isn’t toxic masculinity—it’s the loss of resilience and social skills as tech platforms make life frictionless. He shares how working out, earning money outside the home, and volunteering can put young men in the top 10% of their peers, and why enduring rejection is the true marker of success.
Scott Galloway, NYU Stern professor and bestselling author, draws a sharp distinction between being born male and becoming a man. He insists manhood is about adding surplus value—creating more than you consume, loving more than you’re loved, and serving others. Galloway warns that algorithm-driven comfort is quietly eroding the resilience and social skills of millions of young men, who are becoming asocial, anxious, and isolated by age 30. He shares a personal story about forcing himself to approach a woman at the Raleigh Hotel in Miami—a risk that led to a relationship and a son—to illustrate that growth comes from discomfort, not ease.
Galloway’s advice is specific: work out at least three times a week, get a job outside the house, and volunteer or join groups regularly. He backs this up with numbers: doing these three things puts a man under 30 in the top decile of his peers. He also challenges the myth that success equals exploitation and urges young men to optimize for service, not attention.
Galloway’s message is urgent for parents, educators, and leaders: millions of young men are being left behind by a culture of comfort and distraction. His blueprint—grounded in data, personal experience, and clear steps—offers a way to rebuild resilience, purpose, and connection in a generation at risk of isolation.
Galloway says manhood isn’t automatic—it’s about creating more tax revenue, jobs, and love than you absorb. He admits he didn’t feel like a man until his 40s, after years of taking more than he gave.
Galloway argues that big tech platforms—TikTok, YouTube, porn, gambling apps—are designed to keep young men passive and isolated. He cites statistics: by age 30, millions of men are asocial, asexual, obese, anxious, and depressed. Algorithms profit by keeping users away from real relationships and social risk.
Galloway’s formula is clear: work out at least three times a week, get a job outside the house (even at Panera for $18/hour), and volunteer or join groups at least three times a month. He says this puts a young man in the top 8–10% of his peers and builds resilience, confidence, and social skills.
Galloway advises treating public figures like a buffet—adopt the traits that fit your code, ignore the rest. He admires Jocko Willink’s discipline and authenticity, but rejects Elon Musk as a personal protector role model. Unrealistic expectations of perfection fuel toxic cultures and disappointment.
The only thing that got them there was the willingness in the endurance to anticipate no.
Scott Galloway
Some men are born males but never they die never having become men.
Scott Galloway
Are you optimizing for attention or service?
Scott Galloway
Big tech is not your friend... they monetize your time and sequester you from relationships.
Scott Galloway